Sunday, September 25, 2011

Recognise your enemy

"One of the most time-consuming things is to have an enemy" - E.B. White

Most of us would love to have a life without enemies. In fact, we go to great lengths to make friends and be happy. We read books on “How to win friends and influence people”. We dread the thought of having an enemy who is out to destroy our peace and success. If we were asked to think of and name our enemy, quite a few names might pop up in our minds. Some of us would go to great lengths to make a list and might even include anyone who has even slightly disagreed with us.

Not all are our enemies though. In fact, we are usually surrounded by well-wishers who wish to see us happy and fulfilled. People who criticise us are actually intending to correct us and guide us in the right path. People who punish us have similar motives. Come to think of it, every misfortune that we face is actually helping us become better human beings and more matured. Each experience is a lesson for us in our evolution process.

If that were so, do we really have any enemies? I would say that there is one enemy who is so close to us that we fail to recognise or realise him. That enemy is our own ego. Our ego is really our enemy because it is the one which makes us “difficult” people. Our ego stops us from having selfless and loving relationships. It is our ego which creates greed, envy, hatred, anger and all such negative emotions within us.

If only we realise this and shed our ego, we would be rid of the biggest enemy in our lives and progress much faster towards our goals. We would become less conscious of ourselves, less conceited, less inhibited and more positive in our lives. Recognise this and you become free!!

If you want to make peace with your enemy, you have to work with your enemy. Then he becomes your partner - Nelson Mandela

4 comments:

venus66 said...

I do agree with you.
Thank you.

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Vish.. the first line the superb.. i loved the quote..

Sonal Raisinghani said...

loved the quotes used here....
Ego-controlled-mind knows no peace hence let the reverse happen.. Let your mind control your ego.

V Rakesh said...

Brilliant post Sir...... I'm reminded of an equally brilliant line I read somewhere a long time before, "Treat your enemy like you treat your neighbour, for both of them may be the same people."

I've been absent from blogs for a long time now, and truly missed the action here.......feels wonderful to be back!